Telling a parent or carer
You don’t have to explain everything at once, and you don’t have to show anyone anything. One sentence is enough to start.
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“I’ve been getting painful lumps that keep coming back, and I’m worried about them. Can you help me make a doctor’s appointment?”
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“There’s something happening with my skin that I’m embarrassed about. I can’t explain it properly and I don’t want to show you — but I want a doctor to look at it.”
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“Can you help me get an appointment without us talking right now about exactly where it is?”
Why it’s worded this way: None of these sentences names a diagnosis. That’s deliberate: you don’t have to know what it is to ask for help.